Are you a strap on slave? Ever wondered if you’re a good one. Then it’s time you find out what I define as the best slave for taking strap on. I enjoy pegging everyone. Man, woman, trans.  You name it, I’ll peg it but I’ve got to say, even I have my favorites. Every hole’s a goal but some are definitely better than others.

Training a virgin strap on slave

If you’re curious about taking a strap on, you’ve probably wondered if you’ll enjoy anal sex.  It is worth asking yourself is anal sex for you? I love every new slave who arrives to take my strap on. Those who have turned up and begged me to fuck them, and those who I have to coax, enchant and seduce into anal training.  When someone bends over and lets me inside them, it’s exhilarating.

To know that I am the first to have been inside a slave is a very special feeling. It’s one which drives me wild. However, when a slave returns for a second run, it is always more pleasing than the first. It is the knowledge that I haven’t just broken them in, they have returned for more. It’s a good indication the slave is going to be begging for my strap on for life. Once you go back once, you never stop. Anecdotal evidence, but an observation which has served me well. One which has turned many virgin strap on slaves into what I call, lifers.

How to dress for strap on training

Of course it’s always important that my strap on slaves stay clean. This means a good clean in the shower. I personally prefer a nice smooth hairless arse hole for entering. If you’re new to having your arse filled, anal play during masturbation is a good place to start.  If the strap on session is with a sissy, knickers around the ankles or pulled to one side is my preference.

It’s such a sexy sight having a sissy bent over in front of me, ready for my strap on inside her. I love her panties still on show. As I don’t exclusively strap on fuck sissies, if I have a man taking my strap on, either naked or naked from the waist down is my preference. I also have preferences for my own attire while wearing my strap’.  I love using my strap on while wearing my cat suit. It opens at both ends which means I can show and feel as much or as little as I want, in my control, as always! Perfect.

what makes a well trained strap on slave?

A well trained strap on slave loves my strap on. They know how to present themselves to me, keen and ready. They are ready to obey and worship my strap on, kneeling for it, kissing it, begging for it if instructed. A good slave knows my strap on is a privilege and will behave as such. I love the power it gives me to have a slave in the palm of my hand, ready to wear them round my strap on like a glove. It goes without saying a well trained strap on slave can take some of my bigger strap ons.

That’s what I want, like and need, but slaves also need to consider how to find the perfect strap on dominatrix. Once you know what you’re looking for, the fun can really start.

Does strap on size matter?

I have a variety of training methods to make sure slaves can take my bigger toys eventually, from dildo training kits to inflatable butt plugs. My biggest strap on is around 8.5 inches. I have looked at bigger, but I feel my 8.5 inches suits me perfectly, it gives me the control I need to make sure I can peg in the way I love. All well trained strap on slaves will eventually be able to not only take it, but to beg for it harder. I want to turn screams into moans.  More so, I want to make you love it. If you’re too afraid to bring yourself to start, try some online anal training to prepare and realise how much you love it.

Don’t worry, whether you’re well trained or virginal when it comes to taking the strap on, if you’re here, it’s because you’re curious. If you’re curious, it means you should go for it. Mistress knows best.

Until next time,
Your kink advisor. Dorian Black