Sexual Tension and Kinky Temptation

It’s not often that I take a break from My kinky Lifestyle- but certain occasions do warrant an exception ;) The line “reunited and it feels so good” has been playing in My head since the weekend, and that’s because I’ve recently connected with a past lover I met when I was 19 years old. There was an immediate attraction- I was dressed in knee high, lace up wedge boots over tight black leggings and wearing a patent leather, mid-thigh length trench coat that was belted at the waist. He was very smooth- towering over Me at 6’1; he was the tall, dark and handsome type. Luscious, full lips that I couldn’t wait to kiss- and those dark, soulful eyes that I could get lost in oh so very easily. That attraction is still there today- but I’m also a much kinkier Woman than I was back then . . . .

Take Me for a Ride

After having a couple of drinks before I hopped in his car, My inhibitions were null and void. Just to hold his hand and feel his skin against Mine again was enough to get My pussy twitching. The flirting began, and so did the chat about My current Lifestyle- informing him that in order to get sexy with Me, he would have to be open to some kinky fun- even if that meant keeping My prowess in the most sensual of realms. I began to describe some of the fetishes I thought he might enjoy; like worshiping My stockings and heels, or massaging My body under very particular instruction. The tent in his jeans was impossible to hide- and oh My, what an impressive tent it was ;)

I Know Who I Want to Take Me Home

It didn’t take long for the sexual tension to build up to an unbearable point. The only way he was able to keep his hands off Me was by keeping them on the wheel as he drove back to My place. Within a split second of getting through the door; his hands were tangled in My hair, and My fingers were running up and down his spine as we shared a passionate kiss- and I couldn’t resist sucking on his tongue just to tease him. By the time we were in the kitchen we were grinding against each other hard enough to qualify as dry humping- but I intended to have more fun with him than that! I wanted to have My fun, My way. That’s when I pushed him up against the wall; grabbed the back of his neck, and pulled his ear close enough to My lips to hear Me whisper:  “I want your clothes off. Now. Then, you’re going to get into the shower and start the hot water running for Me . . .”

Just what naughty fun did he and I get into in the shower? You’ll have to tune in next week to find out those sexy details! Meanwhile, I bet you’ve had some experiences with hot and heavy sexual tension of your own- and I dare you to share in the comments!

Have a sexy week ;)

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn


Meet My Strap On Cocks

Happy Monday, subbies and butt sluts! You must know by now that this Strap On Femdom absolutely adores claiming your ass (or sissy pussy, for that matter). Those of you who have enjoyed some ass play sessions with Me do know a bit about My favorite strap on cocks- but they still have yet to experience the entire list ;) Knowing how many different dildos I have for My harnesses can bring a beautiful level of realism to a roleplay scene as I whore you out to each and every one. For those of you who love real time ass play, I’m intrigued to find out how many of My strap on cocks hold a resemblance to those you love fucking your ass with! It’s time to spread your cheeks . . .

My Favorite Strap On Cocks

MarilynThe Anal Starter- This toy, made by Doc Johnson, comes in quite a few colors and varieties- and variations of it have been made by other companies. The Anal Starter is the perfect ass toy for an anal newbie- it’s not much thicker than your middle finger, and with only 5 inches of insertable length and a flared, suction cup base- you can take quite a pounding while still being hot, horny, and comfortable! This little guy only works when I use My bondage rope for a harness; but if you get your own, make sure to stick that suction cup base well to the floor or wall before you start thrusting away!

Jax 1- This is My teal blue, TPE 6 incher with a great set of balls for My harnesses! It’s a softer toy, so your first thrust in has to be a slow one- after that, the fun begins! The wide ridge at the shaft is great for teasing your p-spot for those into prostate stimulation; and the veiny texture certainly adds to the sexy sensations.     This toy is for My middle ground butt sluts because it’s not too big and not too small-  it’s just right ;)

Jax 2- This 6 inch strap on cock is equipped with both balls and a suction cup- great for strap on play, or for bouncing on it alone! The catch is- Jax 2 is not a small toy. He’s the thickest toy I have, which is great to stretch an aching ass or sissy pussy with. For those who love girth more than length, this one’s for you sweetheart :D

Mr. Purple- The most notorious strap on cock I own! Mr. Purple stands a whopping 9 inches long, insertable down to a nice, hefty set of balls. Much like Jax 1; Mr. Purple is at his thickest at that nice, wide ridge where the head meets the shaft. All 9 inches have a deliciously veined texture to make you beg for more, and My anal size queens get both length and thickness out of this one! Mmm fucking hmm.

Strap On Play Safety

Whether playing with your own toys in our session, or playing by yourself or with your real time Mistress- safety is important in anal play! Getting your ass or sissy pussy fucked can be uncomfortable at best, but it should never be painful. You can use a set of butt plugs to begin training your ass before moving on to the dildos ;) After that, if you try to insert a dildo and feel your ass clenching and cramping- it’s too big for now! Go a size down, and work your way up over time. Cleanliness is also a very important factor in anal play. Silicone toys can be sterilized with isopropyl alcohol after a good wash- just make sure they’re completely covered with the alcohol, and make sure it ALL evaporates before rinsing your toy for it’s next use. The evaporation is how your toy gets clean- so don’t skip it! If you’re still working with rubber, PVC, or TPE toys- ALWAYS cover these toys with a condom! These materials are porous, so a condom followed by a wash with soap and a thorough rinse is the best way to keep your toys safe and clean. Lastly, lube is an absolute must with anal play. If you’re covering plastic and rubber toys with a condom, silicone lube is amazing for anal play because it stays very slick and seldom needs reapplication as long as you used lots of lube in the first place. For bareback use with silicone toys, DO NOT use silicone lube! It will break down and degrade your toy, and no one wants that. Instead, go for a high quality, water based lube- I Myself recommend Lelo brand lubricant, because Lelo is amazing and stays slick on silicone toys for quite a nice pounding ;)

Do you love taking a Mistresses Strap On Cock- and which one off My list is your favorite? If you’re an anal newbie curious to explore some more, will you be starting with a butt plug or a smaller dildo? Share in the comments, and if you need some extra teasing for your anal play fix- head on over to to see how Mistress Delia has been playing with Jack’s ass :D

Have a Kinky Week ;)

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn


7 Signs of a Too Small Penis

Good evening kinksters and humiliation pets! Tonight, your cockteasing SPH Mistress is in a deep freeze- and since I’m huddled over My computer with My sweet nipples about to crack off, I decided to write a short post about short things ;) If you’ve ever wondered if your cock is too small to satisfy and find yourself getting all worked up at the thought of My gorgeous giggle ringing in your ears as I tell you My unedited opinion, this list is for you! As an added bonus, I’ll have you know that guys with a fetish for SPH do get a Humiliatrix like Me all worked up- and if you get Me worked up enough, you might even earn the chance to warm up My nipples even if you’ll never earn My warm, tight wetness wrapped around you ;)

How to Tell if your Dick is Too SmallMarilyn

  1. You’ve lost count of how many times a Woman has asked you “is it in yet?”
  2. Even worse, you’ve lost count of how many Women have walked away laughing the moment you got those boxer briefs off- and didn’t even get close enough to Her precious pussy for Her to have to ask “is it in yet?” ;)
  3. If My six and a half inch platform heels put your dick to shame; you know you’re in trouble if My five inch stiletto single soles for My teensy size five feet are still longer than your cock!
  4. If all it takes is your index, middle, and thumb fingers to stroke- that’s not a dick, it’s a dicklet :D
  5. If I ask you “so just how small is it?” and your answer begins with the word “about” followed by the number of inches- it’s too small. Rounding up to the next inch is such a cute tactic to attempt to gain My mercy that it never fails to amuse Me!
  6. When it’s been so long since you’ve had pussy that your pinch and stroke technique has you cumming 30 seconds into a good jack off. Can it get worse than having a tiny dick and being a premature ejaculator? Let’s find out . . . .
  7. When you realize you’re addicted to Small Penis Humiliation from a Mistress like Myself because having Me teach you to edge and hold in that load while I giggle in amusement is the hottest, closest thing to sex you’ve gotten for a few years now! You know it’s true ;)

Do you have a small dick and a fetish for SPH? Share in the comments, and tell Me some of the signs you’ve gotten that you have a dicklet instead of a cock (if they’re not on the list already) :D Keep warm so that dick doesn’t look any smaller than it already is, and have a kinky week!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn


Temperature Play with Mistress Marilyn

Welcome back, subbies and kinksters! This week, I was going through my 30 pound bag of sex toys and implements in search of a few favorites. Upon finding My Japanese Drip Candles, it dawned on Me that it has been far too long since I’ve done any in-depth temperature play- including wax and ice. In BDSM, your senses- whether Domme or sub, are the key to bringing all your fantasies to life. Sensory play can be anything from a light, teasing tickle with a feather duster in a sensual scene to fingernails down the back to take a break from the flogging in a stricter scene. Being able to indulge your senses to My full advantage holds more power than any physical implement I happen to be wielding- and it draws your submissive desires closer to Me. Today, we’re going to focus on Temperature Play and all the sexiness it can add to our playtime together ;)

You’re Hot then You’re Cold

We’re going to start with a tried and true favorite- drip candles made specifically for BDSM play! Wax play has always been something I adored, so I always keep a set of red, purple, and black Doc Johnson Japanese Drip Candles on hand to add some extra heat and color to a scene ;) When I hold a candle far from a subbies skin and let it drip; it gives the drop of wax a chance to cool off a bit before it reaches the flesh- and that can make for a warm and sensual indulgence. If I hold the candle closer to the skin, the hot wax can give a delightful twinge of pain followed by an amazing endorphin rush that will give satisfaction to both Me and My masochistic partner. Once it’s time to cool things down a bit, I’ll blow out the candle and grab the ice cubes! Ice is lovely to soothe the skin after wax play, and it helps the flakes of wax slide off the skin much more easily. The best part is that the cool water droplets from the ice can feel quite sensual themselves- but if I were to hold an ice cube up against a small area of flesh until it began to melt; that cold can create the perfect mix of pleasure and pain.

Fire and Ice Indulges the Senses

Part of what makes temperature play so sexy and intriguing is the fact that there are so many variations of it, that there’s a little something for everyone’s tastes ;) Glass and metal sex toys are a great way to mix temperature play with other kinky BDSM activities, too. I might have you put your metal clover clamps in the fridge and rub that cold metal over your sensitive nipples before I have you beg Me to put them on ;) For those of you into anal play, you can slip a glass or metal dildo or butt plug in the fridge for a while to make it nice and cold; or you can run it under hot or cold water to get your temperature play started. Always test the temperature on the inside of your wrist to make sure it’s safe for play before slipping it inside that aching, twitching hole for Me! A last favorite temperature play toy of mine is a little something I discovered during My retail therapy session a couple of months back- reusable ice cubes. These little pervertables are great for temperature play because they’re easy to wash; and even though they do melt- when the ice is encased in plastic there’s no water droplets for you to clean up! In a teasing scene, I might have you draw the edges of the cubes up and down the insides of your thighs or over your nipples- but in a hardcore scene, I might have a subbie hold that cube right against the tip of his dick until he can’t take the cold anymore. For a butt slut, I could have you squeeze the cubes right between your ass cheeks for Me until the ice begins to melt- and for My sissy girls, those ice cubes would fit quite nicely in your bra to torment those sissy titties, I’m sure ;)

Have you ever tried Temperature Play? Do you prefer the hot temperatures of wax play and warmed up sex toys, or the shocking cold of ice cubes sending goosebumps over your skin? Share in the comments, and have a kinky week ;)

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn


Serving Up CBT Fun

You’ve fantasized about it before- coming home after a long, hard day at work to a delicious home cooked meal and your sexy girlfriend serving it up wearing nothing but a satin apron, matching black panties, and heels ;) Now that I’ve got your cock nice and hard and those balls beginning to swell, just what will I do with you next? Did you really think I was about to throw you down on the table and give you the ride of a lifetime- or will I start searching around the kitchen for things to torment you with? :D

Cock and Ball Torment in the Kitchen

One of My favorite things in the world is the delightful squeals My CBT pets make when I smack, squeeze, or pinch their balls! The best part about CBT is that although there are many devious sex toys made exactly for that purpose- there’s also things around your kitchen that I like to call “pervertables” that work just as well! So what are “pervertables”, exactly? Well, those are items in your everyday life used for everyday purposes . . . . that can also be used in convenient ways by lovable perverts like you and I ;) Right in your kitchen, you can find a rubber spatula that’s perfect for delivering smacks to your nuts with; just like a riding crop. You can also use a wooden spoon where you would have used a paddle instead; or put a metal spoon in the refrigerator for a few hours to get a good shock of cold to those blue balls exactly when I feel you’ve earned it! Last but not least, you can always test out the tension of smaller bag clips on the extra skin between your index and thumb finger. If the tension is just right, these can be both safe and fun during CBT play under an experienced Mistresses direction- and, they can even double as nipple clamps, too!

Pervertables Around the House

Although I’ll always believe the kitchen is the best place to find makeshift CBT toys, there’s lots of other lovely pervertables around your house that we can make use of. Those work boots in your closet have nice long, round laces that would be perfect for cock and ball bondage, wouldn’t they? What about the clothespins in your laundry room- is that wood nice and smooth with no risk of splintering? Then those will be perfect to clip on the loose skin of those aching balls! I love using these toys in tandem with the kitchen implements, as well. Clothespins are meant to be smacked with things like spatulas, and once your cock is so hard it’s trying to burst out of it’s bondage- what better a time for Me to deliver that shocking yet soothing rush of cold to your balls with that spoon that’s been chilling in the fridge? Look at that- I suppose I still have an ounce of mercy left in Me after all ;)

Do you enjoy CBT? Are you more into impact play, or having those balls squeezed and pinched? Share in the comments; but just remember that once you do- we’re not talking about “your” balls anymore. They’re Mine now!

Have a Kinky Week ;)

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn


Feminine Curves for Sissies and Cross Dressers


Happy Monday sissies, girls, and panty boys! This week, your Mistress has decided to begin waist training with My favorite underbust corset to go for that curvy, vintage figure I’ve always dreamed of! Sure, My skating and on and off Taekwondo practice has Me trim and toned- but slim and toned is . . . → Read More: Feminine Curves for Sissies and Cross Dressers


Femdom Trampling Fun


Welcome back, subbies and naughty boys! Last week, I wrote about 5 Thoughts a Mistress Masturbates To; and it turns out that two sexy things off My list also correlate to this week’s fun: My heels and stockings, as well as indulging My Sadistic side Trampling has been a favorite fetish of . . . → Read More: Femdom Trampling Fun


5 Thoughts a Mistress Masturbates To


Happy Monday and Happy New Year, kinksters! This year, I’m back to brightening up your Monday evenings with a sexy new blog post each week. To kick off the sexiness, I’ve decided to chat about something that Mistresses, submissives, and playmates all enjoy- masturbation! Every Femdom is bound to have Her own . . . → Read More: 5 Thoughts a Mistress Masturbates To


Spanking: Play or Punishment?


Welcome back, subbies and playmates! It’s turning out to be a cold winter, but if there’s one thing that keeps Me warm- it’s warming up your bottom Spanking has always been a favorite fetish of Mine; and that’s mainly because of the diversity and artistry in the activity itself. It can start . . . → Read More: Spanking: Play or Punishment?


A Creepy Crawly Cocktober Carnival


Your trip to Ms. Gemma’s Temple of Desire must have gotten you quite flustered, given the blush in your cheeks and the rush of your breath. Your heart races as you stumble about our carnival; still reeling from the utter humiliation of a room full of gorgeous women laughing at your misfortune. . . . → Read More: A Creepy Crawly Cocktober Carnival