Welcome back and Happy Monday! As of late, like many of My kinky subbies- I have had orgasms on My mind this week I’m not just talking about simply having an orgasm; but all the hot and kinky ways I can take your pleasure into My hands and make your head spin as your cock throbs. Since those possibilities are nearly endless, I’ve decided to show a hint of mercy and narrow down those possibilities to My three favorite types of orgasms . . . at least for this week
In the wonderful world of cock control, orgasms aren’t quite as dull as simply stroking and jizzing- and even denied orgasms can become the norm for a submissive in chastity or a kinky playmate who just loves tease and denial. In My eyes, ruined orgasms truly are a special kind of torment- a deviation of that pinnacle of pleasure. For those of you who have experienced a ruined orgasm (especially under My control), you’re well aware of that beautiful sensation that gives you a hint of release while ultimately keeping you teased and begging for a full blown orgasm. For those of you who still need to be corrupted; having your pleasure ordered to a halt at the very moment it peaks can be a wonderful introduction to tease and denial, or even a hot and tormenting change of pace for submissives used to having their orgasms denied. Any way you spin it, ruined orgasms are a very particular delight- especially for a Femdom who just adores hearing you whimper
Some might say “If you’re not even having an orgasm, how does a denied orgasm even qualify as an orgasm?!”- but if you ask a tease and denial fetishist, they’ll tell you that having their orgasm denied can be just as hot; if not better than actually having an orgasm! Now how exactly does that work? Well, humping your hand until you cum is something that nearly every man is capable of, and does quite often. It leaves something to be desired, which is when your cock control Mistress comes into play The point of a denied orgasm is to step away from instant gratification, and learn the exquisite sensations that come along with your cock being mercilessly teased as your Mistress coaxes your sexuality into hyperdrive for as long as She sees fit. Personally, I find it much sexier to own a submissives cock and to keep him rock hard and always wanting more than to just let him cum. Why? Because saying no is just so much more fun!
You might have been able to guess, but My orgasm is obviously My favorite kind of orgasm in any sexy situation For Me, an orgasm isn’t just about feeling that spine tingling, wet-to-My-thighs pleasure- it’s about power. It certainly feels incredible to run a vanilla lavender bubble bath and nestle My waterproof vibrator between My pussy lips; but those exact same sensations feel ten times better when paired with the mental rush of enjoying My pleasure while I keep your orgasm edged, and ultimately denied. It’s really no wonder why begging and groveling is such a turn on of Mine
Have you experienced a ruined or denied orgasm, and which is your favorite type of orgasm off My list? Share in the comments, and have a teasing week
Happy Monday, subbies and kinksters! This week, I have a particularly special treat for your ears When I first started with LDW, I’d done a Mistress Interview with the lovely Ms Tia- but I thought that four years later, I was due for a Mistress Interview update. Luckily, the very sexy Ms Constance took the time to sit down with Me and ask Me some very interesting questions . . .
The Kinky Questions
Of course, there’s going to be some kinky questions involved when interviewing a Femdom! My writings on My blog do give quite a bit of insight as to what a beautifully kinky life entails while I’m away- but this interview gets to the down and dirty details. Am I more sensual or more strict? Which sex toy can give Me the most explosive orgasms, and what exactly is so special about it? Which qualities do I value the most in My submissives- and do I like vanilla sex at all or am I all Femdom all the time? I’m not about to give away those answers just yet, though
The Quirky Questions
Thanks to the quirky fellows over at our Enchantrix Empire social network (if you haven’t joined, get there! You’re missing out on sexy fun!)- there were a few eclectic questions in the bunch that certainly kept Me on My toes You might just meet Marilyn the Existentialist; or find out My advice on convincing your Mistress why a properly fitted chastity device is necessary. Should you happen to hear about My love of high heels, stockings, and My new hobby in corsetry; you might be too teased to get into a chastity device yourself too soon though! Aww, is your cock or clitty throbbing for Me already? I thought so. Now let’s keep it that way
In My last post, Sexual Tension and Kinky Temptation- I left you with quite the boner cliffhanger as I ordered My lover to strip and get into the shower for Me. Since I kept you on the edge a week longer than usual- I’m going to make part 2 even sexier with all the naughty details! Aren’t you lucky to get such a treat? Of course you are- but My lover was much luckier
Building the Tension
I walked into a room filled with steam- his gorgeous body and fully erect cock making quite the teasing shadow through the frosted glass shower doors. With My heels off, I’d tiptoed in- wondering if he could see My body as I pulled My blouse over My head, flicked My bra off, and dropped My skinny jeans and panties to the floor. I slowly opened the shower door; only to meet his lustful gaze as I stepped inside. He leaned down to kiss Me and I let him- until I bit his lip, then made My way down to licking and nibbling his sensitive nipples. He moaned for more, so I grabbed his exquisitely enticing manhood and began to stroke him . . . . until I slipped the tip right against My clit- reminding him that the Lady always cums first
Getting Me Wet
Sitting down at the bottom of the tub, I rested My back and spread My legs- telling him that he knows where he belongs. His tongue was exceptionally pleasing; and that pleasure only doubled when his fingers found that special spot inside My sweet pussy Not many men get to fuck Me because most are unworthy- and even fewer have ever experienced the pleasures My mouth is capable of giving- but he and I are a little bit different just because of our history together After I had two mind blowing orgasms, I made him a deal; considering he has always adored My feet. I told him that if he could manage to give Me an exceptional foot rub- working the tension out of the arches and tenderly rubbing the balls of My feet and the joints in My daintily pedicured toes- I would give him a treat . . .
An Elusive Kinky Reward
The foot rub was incredible; proving him to be a delightful foot fetishist when he ended the massage by sucking My toes. I’ll admit it- I wanted to ride that incredible cock! I really, truly did. That said; I know that when I control the cock, I control the man- so I wasn’t about to give up that treat so easily. Instead, I told him to turn the faucet on and fill the tub about halfway. We switched our positions so that he could lie down in the tub with Me kneeling between his legs. That’s when I got to the real tease, asking him “Would you like to place a bet on how long I can hold My breath?” – and I know you know how things progressed from that point! Teasing him right to the very edge, I stopped before he blew his load. I gently grazed his face with My hand, looking him right in the eye. “You won’t be cumming for the next five days. On day five, you may blow that load- I’ll want your stamina back by day seven in case I decide to take you for a ride our next time around” . . . . Needless to say, he just might end up becoming My new Cuckold Stud
Stay tuned for My next post featuring My new Mistress Interview with Empress Constance! Meanwhile, share in the comments if you’ve ever had a vanilla experience that ended up turning into a much kinkier evening than you’d expected it to!
It’s not often that I take a break from My kinky Lifestyle- but certain occasions do warrant an exception The line “reunited and it feels so good” has been playing in My head since the weekend, and that’s because I’ve recently connected with a past lover I met when I was 19 years old. There was an immediate attraction- I was dressed in knee high, lace up wedge boots over tight black leggings and wearing a patent leather, mid-thigh length trench coat that was belted at the waist. He was very smooth- towering over Me at 6’1; he was the tall, dark and handsome type. Luscious, full lips that I couldn’t wait to kiss- and those dark, soulful eyes that I could get lost in oh so very easily. That attraction is still there today- but I’m also a much kinkier Woman than I was back then . . . .
Take Me for a Ride
After having a couple of drinks before I hopped in his car, My inhibitions were null and void. Just to hold his hand and feel his skin against Mine again was enough to get My pussy twitching. The flirting began, and so did the chat about My current Lifestyle- informing him that in order to get sexy with Me, he would have to be open to some kinky fun- even if that meant keeping My prowess in the most sensual of realms. I began to describe some of the fetishes I thought he might enjoy; like worshiping My stockings and heels, or massaging My body under very particular instruction. The tent in his jeans was impossible to hide- and oh My, what an impressive tent it was
I Know Who I Want to Take Me Home
It didn’t take long for the sexual tension to build up to an unbearable point. The only way he was able to keep his hands off Me was by keeping them on the wheel as he drove back to My place. Within a split second of getting through the door; his hands were tangled in My hair, and My fingers were running up and down his spine as we shared a passionate kiss- and I couldn’t resist sucking on his tongue just to tease him. By the time we were in the kitchen we were grinding against each other hard enough to qualify as dry humping- but I intended to have more fun with him than that! I wanted to have My fun, My way. That’s when I pushed him up against the wall; grabbed the back of his neck, and pulled his ear close enough to My lips to hear Me whisper: “I want your clothes off. Now. Then, you’re going to get into the shower and start the hot water running for Me . . .”
Just what naughty fun did he and I get into in the shower? You’ll have to tune in next week to find out those sexy details! Meanwhile, I bet you’ve had some experiences with hot and heavy sexual tension of your own- and I dare you to share in the comments!
Happy Monday, subbies and butt sluts! You must know by now that this Strap On Femdom absolutely adores claiming your ass (or sissy pussy, for that matter). Those of you who have enjoyed some ass play sessions with Me do know a bit about My favorite strap on cocks- but they still have yet to experience the entire list Knowing how many different dildos I have for My harnesses can bring a beautiful level of realism to a roleplay scene as I whore you out to each and every one. For those of you who love real time ass play, I’m intrigued to find out how many of My strap on cocks hold a resemblance to those you love fucking your ass with! It’s time to spread your cheeks . . .
My Favorite Strap On Cocks
The Anal Starter- This toy, made by Doc Johnson, comes in quite a few colors and varieties- and variations of it have been made by other companies. The Anal Starter is the perfect ass toy for an anal newbie- it’s not much thicker than your middle finger, and with only 5 inches of insertable length and a flared, suction cup base- you can take quite a pounding while still being hot, horny, and comfortable! This little guy only works when I use My bondage rope for a harness; but if you get your own, make sure to stick that suction cup base well to the floor or wall before you start thrusting away!
Jax 1- This is My teal blue, TPE 6 incher with a great set of balls for My harnesses! It’s a softer toy, so your first thrust in has to be a slow one- after that, the fun begins! The wide ridge at the shaft is great for teasing your p-spot for those into prostate stimulation; and the veiny texture certainly adds to the sexy sensations. This toy is for My middle ground butt sluts because it’s not too big and not too small- it’s just right
Jax 2- This 6 inch strap on cock is equipped with both balls and a suction cup- great for strap on play, or for bouncing on it alone! The catch is- Jax 2 is not a small toy. He’s the thickest toy I have, which is great to stretch an aching ass or sissy pussy with. For those who love girth more than length, this one’s for you sweetheart
Mr. Purple- The most notorious strap on cock I own! Mr. Purple stands a whopping 9 inches long, insertable down to a nice, hefty set of balls. Much like Jax 1; Mr. Purple is at his thickest at that nice, wide ridge where the head meets the shaft. All 9 inches have a deliciously veined texture to make you beg for more, and My anal size queens get both length and thickness out of this one! Mmm fucking hmm.
Strap On Play Safety
Whether playing with your own toys in our session, or playing by yourself or with your real time Mistress- safety is important in anal play! Getting your ass or sissy pussy fucked can be uncomfortable at best, but it should never be painful. You can use a set of butt plugs to begin training your ass before moving on to the dildos After that, if you try to insert a dildo and feel your ass clenching and cramping- it’s too big for now! Go a size down, and work your way up over time. Cleanliness is also a very important factor in anal play. Silicone toys can be sterilized with isopropyl alcohol after a good wash- just make sure they’re completely covered with the alcohol, and make sure it ALL evaporates before rinsing your toy for it’s next use. The evaporation is how your toy gets clean- so don’t skip it! If you’re still working with rubber, PVC, or TPE toys- ALWAYS cover these toys with a condom! These materials are porous, so a condom followed by a wash with soap and a thorough rinse is the best way to keep your toys safe and clean. Lastly, lube is an absolute must with anal play. If you’re covering plastic and rubber toys with a condom, silicone lube is amazing for anal play because it stays very slick and seldom needs reapplication as long as you used lots of lube in the first place. For bareback use with silicone toys, DO NOT use silicone lube! It will break down and degrade your toy, and no one wants that. Instead, go for a high quality, water based lube- I Myself recommend Lelo brand lubricant, because Lelo is amazing and stays slick on silicone toys for quite a nice pounding
Do you love taking a Mistresses Strap On Cock- and which one off My list is your favorite? If you’re an anal newbie curious to explore some more, will you be starting with a butt plug or a smaller dildo? Share in the comments, and if you need some extra teasing for your anal play fix- head on over to www.analtrainingphonesex.com to see how Mistress Delia has been playing with Jack’s ass
Good evening kinksters and humiliation pets! Tonight, your cockteasing SPH Mistress is in a deep freeze- and since I’m huddled over My computer with My sweet nipples about to crack off, I decided to write a short post about short things If you’ve ever wondered if your cock is too small to . . . → Read More: 7 Signs of a Too Small Penis
Welcome back, subbies and kinksters! This week, I was going through my 30 pound bag of sex toys and implements in search of a few favorites. Upon finding My Japanese Drip Candles, it dawned on Me that it has been far too long since I’ve done any in-depth temperature play- including wax . . . → Read More: Temperature Play with Mistress Marilyn
You’ve fantasized about it before- coming home after a long, hard day at work to a delicious home cooked meal and your sexy girlfriend serving it up wearing nothing but a satin apron, matching black panties, and heels Now that I’ve got your cock nice and hard and those balls beginning to . . . → Read More: Serving Up CBT Fun
Happy Monday sissies, girls, and panty boys! This week, your Mistress has decided to begin waist training with My favorite underbust corset to go for that curvy, vintage figure I’ve always dreamed of! Sure, My skating and on and off Taekwondo practice has Me trim and toned- but slim and toned is . . . → Read More: Feminine Curves for Sissies and Cross Dressers
Welcome back, subbies and naughty boys! Last week, I wrote about 5 Thoughts a Mistress Masturbates To; and it turns out that two sexy things off My list also correlate to this week’s fun: My heels and stockings, as well as indulging My Sadistic side Trampling has been a favorite fetish of . . . → Read More: Femdom Trampling Fun